Know the signs of elder abuse
Older adults should feel safe and cared for. Learn the warning signs of abuse and how to get help.
Older adults deserve care, respect and safety. Elder abuse happens when someone harms an older adult.
It can happen at home or in a care setting. It can happen anywhere. The person causing harm could be a caregiver, family member or a stranger.
Elder abuse happens more often than many people think. Knowing the types and signs of abuse can help you protect a loved one.
Types of elder abuse
Elder abuse can happen in different ways. Here are common types:
- Physical abuse. When someone causes pain or injury. This includes hitting, pushing or shaking.
- Emotional abuse. When someone scares, shames or hurts feelings. It may be yelling, name-calling or ignoring a person.
- Financial abuse. When someone steals money or uses it without permission. This includes forging checks or taking cash. Blocking someone’s access to their money. Changing financial accounts without consent. Or forcing or tricking a person into signing documents.
- Neglect. When someone doesn’t meet a person’s basic needs. This can mean not giving enough food, water, medicine or help with hygiene.
- Abandonment. When someone leaves an older adult alone. They don’t plan for the person’s care.
- Sexual abuse. When someone has sexual contact without consent.
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Signs of elder abuse
Watch for these warning signs:
- Bruises, burns or cuts with no clear cause.
- Fear, sadness or confusion, especially around a caregiver.
- Pulling away from others or sudden mood changes.
- Dirty clothes, poor hygiene or unexpected weight loss.
- Unsafe or unclean living spaces.
- Bedsores or untreated infections.
- Missing items like glasses, walkers or hearing aids.
- Unpaid bills or sudden money troubles.
What to do
If you think someone is in danger, don’t ignore it. Speaking up can help keep them safe.
Talk with the person when you’re alone with them. Ask simple questions and listen. Many adults are ashamed to report abuse. Check in often. Show you care and that they can trust you.
If you feel unsure, it’s still okay to ask for help.
These services can offer support:
- Adult Protective Services helps protect people from elder abuse. You can find your local agency on their website, or call 202-370-6292.
- The National Center on Elder Abuse can help you report abuse or find help. Visit the National Center on Elder Abuse website or call 855-500-3537.
If someone is in urgent danger, call 911 right away.
See our sources
More information about elder abuse: National institute on aging
